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How do I run a family business and keep family and work apart?

By Mahmoud SaiedLast updated 27 October 20262 min read

The short answer

Keep ownership, management and family membership apart, because being family does not automatically bring a job, a salary or decision rights. Write the rules in a family charter, and apply the same standards to family members who work in the company as to every other employee.

Step by step

  1. 1

    A written family charter

    Who may work in the company and with what qualifications, how profits are distributed, how disputes are resolved, and how shares pass on.

  2. 2

    Jobs with descriptions and standards

    A family member is hired into a role with a job description and performance indicators, and is appraised and promoted by the same standards.

  3. 3

    Keep salary separate from profit

    Those who work receive a market salary for their role, and profits are distributed to owners according to their shares, whether or not they work in the company.

  4. 4

    Separate meetings

    A family meeting for ownership and values, and a management meeting for business matters, and no business decision is settled at the family dinner table.

  5. 5

    Bring in an outside view

    An adviser or an independent board member helps with major decisions and takes the heat out of disagreements.

  6. 6

    Plan the succession early

    Prepare the next generation or a professional manager from outside the family, and arrange the transfer of ownership with a legal adviser and a financial adviser before circumstances force it.

A common mistake

Placing a family member in a role that does not suit them to keep the family happy harms the company, weakens employees' trust in fair management, and hurts the family relationship itself when it goes wrong.

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